Monday, September 21, 2009

And here we go~

Things have changed a lot since my last blog. Sam is coming around slowly and is understanding that he won't be going anywhere else. He is acknowledging that Jim and I are now his parents. And he is learning that it is OK for him to be angry with his mother for what he has been through. All in all, things are slowly working their way upwards.

Chase is working on moving forward with things as well. He really does not want to go to his father's house. But because he is flying back with Grandma Meston, he is willing to go out there to spend time with her. He disapproves of his father's girlfriend, but knows that his father will not listen to him. It is still a sad situation.

Our attorney is Oregon is reviewing some documentation that we sent him. Basically, we have asked my ex spouse to drop his insurance on Chase as it is useless to us. It is also causing conflict with our insurance. So because of all the conflict, Chase has no insurance right now. What do we need to resolve this? A letter from the ex's job stating that his insurance no longer is carrying Chase. And then we can re-enroll Chase with Tricare Prime and he will be fully insured after that. What's causing the conflict? Seriously, the ex does not want to pay the $128.00 fee to the courts. I paid for all the paperwork to be written up and submitted, so it would only be fair for him to pay the court fee, right? Well, the way I am seeing things is that the court fee is going to eventually cost him about $1500 after my attorney is done. But such is his ignorance.

OK, right now I am going to scoot. I think I will work on my homework for Saturday class and then finish retyping my Illustration Essay.

Night all.

BTW..I am taking 4 classes at this time, and I have 4 A's. I'm feeling very proud of myself.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I knew it would work out. It takes time to reteach a child whose had 15 yrs. of unteaching.

Example is the best teacher, and he has 2 of the best. Keep on keeping on. It only gets better. Love you all. Mom

P.S. I am so proud of you for all you are accomplishing. & thanks for the ROCK.

Sean said...

Good for you! I only have 6 weeks left and I am done with school! hehehe