Monday, January 3, 2011

Loss of soul...


There have been so many things going on lately I can't seem to make heads or tails of them. My oldest son is now in the State of Oregon under temporary custody of my ex husband. According to him, my son is making accusations towards my current spouse about him abusing us. I know all the accusations are untrue, and I am working my tail end off to get the custody order turned over. However, after the temporary is turned over I will then have to go through another court hearing for actual custody of my son. For 10 years I have had sole custody of my gorgeous little doe-eyed boy, and now I am lost because I haven't spoken to him in 19 days. No phone calls, no emails, no text messages, no nothing at all. I have an almost three year old boy running around the house looking for his brother non-stop, and no answers to share with my oldest sons school. What do I do? Where do I go? What do I say to people? When can I hold my son and tell him I love him, and I know this isn't his fault?

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Arica,
Lives of adults always impact children especially when adults are being stupid. It is unfair your ex is using your son as a weapon against you. There are legal ways to get more visitation with his son, but this last action will not go well for him or unfortunately for your son. I know your reunion will be swift and full of emotion.