Monday, July 7, 2008

Misuse of the word love.

I never understood how people could use the word Love so loosely. After 2 weeks, she "loves" him so much she could not survive without him? Seriously now. Two weeks ago you did not even know he existed. And now you thread your delicate life around his every being? There are several ways to look at it...each way works for each person who is doing the gandering. Me personally...This is my take on it.

Love is something special. It is something that makes your heart skip a beat when he looks at you a certain way. It is when he says something that no one else thinks is particularly funny, but milk squirts out your nose. Is it the ability to look into his eyes and know that no matter what, he will always be there.

Love does make you cry. But for these reasons. The pain you feel when he is about to leave for a very long time. The joy you feel when you see the look on his face as he holds his newborn child for the first time. Knowing that if anything ever happened, he would take care of everything for you. Experiencing the love in his eyes when he sees you walk down the aisle for the first time. You should only ever cry for those reasons.

You should never cry, nor forgive when he cheats on you. When he deliberately lies to you to cover something up. When he makes you out to be the person in the wrong, and then tells you that your crazy. When you finally realize it was never your fault after all was said and done. That he was the one in the wrong the entire time.

Stop and think of the precious moments you lose when the word love is uttered without true meaning.

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